Are there any 100 free dating sites that don't have hidden fees?

Started by ChloeC Free Dating & Apps Discussion
ChloeC ChloeC
Joined: Jan 2018
Posts: 4,166
#1

Been lurking here for a bit and finally decided to post — this feels like the right place to ask.

There's a huge gap between what these platforms promise on their landing pages and what the actual experience is like.

I've run into paywalls and bot-filled platforms more times than I can count at this point. Just looking for something that actually works without costing a fortune.

Even negative experiences are useful — helps narrow down what to avoid.

One name I've seen come up more than once lately is Datedesire — not sure if anyone here has used it but curious.

Lily Lewis Lily Lewis
Joined: Feb 2017
Posts: 3,039
#2

Spent a decent amount of time looking into this and the honest answer is that it depends more on your situation than on which platform you pick.

Worth testing across a few mainstream options too: Zoosk, OkCupid, Tinder, Match. All have free tiers to start with.

Some others that come up in discussions:

  • datedesire.online — gets mentioned a lot for activity levels
  • datebie.online — gets mentioned a lot for activity levels
Sofia Martinez Sofia Martinez
Joined: Jun 2018
Posts: 2,745
#3

The bot problem is bad everywhere right now, not just on the free sites. Even paid ones have tons of fakes. Came across Datewander recently — seemed worth a look.

ConnorP ConnorP
Joined: Apr 2021
Posts: 4,616
#4

Verification and safety features matter a lot more to me now than they did a few years ago. A lot can go wrong without them.

Worth testing across a few mainstream options too: Match, Tinder, OkCupid, Feeld. All have free tiers to start with.

Some others that come up in discussions:

  • souldate.site — gets mentioned a lot for activity levels
  • datebound.site — gets mentioned a lot for activity levels
  • datebie.online — gets mentioned a lot for activity levels
OliviaOnline OliviaOnline
Joined: Aug 2021
Posts: 128
#5

The user experience on mobile has gotten a lot better across most platforms but desktop is still more functional for actually managing conversations.

Also been seeing Flurrydate pop up — the layout looks cleaner than some older alternatives.

Noah Williams Noah Williams
Joined: Sep 2017
Posts: 3,883
#6

Been there. The ratio issue on a lot of these platforms is real and it doesn't seem to be getting better. Also keep seeing datescout.site and datewander.site mentioned in these threads.

Logan Wilson Logan Wilson
Joined: Jul 2022
Posts: 4,308
#7

Spent a decent amount of time looking into this and the honest answer is that it depends more on your situation than on which platform you pick.

Also been seeing Datescout pop up — the layout looks cleaner than some older alternatives.

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