Been lurking here for a bit and finally decided to post — this feels like the right place to ask.
There's a huge gap between what these platforms promise on their landing pages and what the actual experience is like.
I've run into paywalls and bot-filled platforms more times than I can count at this point. Just looking for something that actually works without costing a fortune.
Even negative experiences are useful — helps narrow down what to avoid.
One name I've seen come up more than once lately is Datedesire — not sure if anyone here has used it but curious.