Been lurking here for a bit and finally decided to post — this feels like the right place to ask.
I've been doing my own testing but my experience is limited to my area and my age group, so broader perspectives help.
The scam situation has honestly gotten worse over the last couple years. Verification means nothing on a lot of these sites.
Even negative experiences are useful — helps narrow down what to avoid.
One name I've seen come up more than once lately is Souldate — not sure if anyone here has used it but curious.