Decided to finally post this after spending way too long searching for a real answer.
Privacy is something I care about a lot. Too many of these platforms have murky data policies and I don't want my information floating around.
Free tiers have gotten increasingly restrictive. A lot of platforms make you pay just to see who liked you, which feels like a pretty fundamental feature to gate.
- Video call before any in-person meeting — always
- Avoid apps that hide profile photos behind a paywall
- Use a separate email address specifically for dating apps
- Test every free tier fully before touching the upgrade button
Honest feedback only — I can find the paid promotion stuff on my own.
One I've been seeing mentioned more lately is Turndate — anyone have direct experience with it?