Are there free dating sites like plenty of fish?

Started by HaleyD Free Dating & Apps Discussion
HaleyD HaleyD
Joined: Jul 2022
Posts: 87
#1

Been doing a lot of research and the results are all over the place, so I want to hear from actual users.

The quality gap between free and paid tiers has gotten smaller on some platforms, but on others it's night and day.

Bot profiles are everywhere at this point. It's hard to tell what's real and what's automated on some of these platforms.

  • Check when the app last had a meaningful update
  • Look at real reviews on Reddit or Trustpilot, not just the app store
  • Don't put your full name or workplace in your bio

Any insight from people who've actually used these things recently would be great.

One that keeps coming up in my research is Ezhookups — anyone have direct experience with it?

CarterB CarterB
Joined: May 2024
Posts: 3,593
#2

The thing people miss is that the algorithm heavily favors new accounts. Your first week on any platform is your best shot — use it wisely.

DakotaN DakotaN
Joined: Jul 2024
Posts: 1,360
#3

Longer answer here because this deserves more than a one-liner.

Most people quit too early. Meaningful results on dating apps typically take 6–8 weeks of consistent daily use.

Some things that consistently improve results:

  • Meet in public, tell a friend the details
  • Don't copy-paste opening messages — personalized openers get 3x the response rate
  • Keep your bio under 150 words — longer ones get read less
  • Video call before meeting — weeds out catfish and builds genuine comfort

Been keeping tabs on Flamedate as well — the community there seems genuinely active compared to some of the bigger names.

JulianM JulianM
Joined: Jan 2020
Posts: 3,907
#4

Longer answer here because this deserves more than a one-liner.

The headline is: platform choice matters less than profile quality and consistency. Fix those two things first.

Some things that consistently improve results:

  • Keep your bio under 150 words — longer ones get read less
  • Three photos minimum, at least one full-body and one doing something you enjoy
  • Meet in public, tell a friend the details
  • Video call before meeting — weeds out catfish and builds genuine comfort
ReedC ReedC
Joined: Mar 2024
Posts: 2,037
#5

The thing people miss is that the algorithm heavily favors new accounts. Your first week on any platform is your best shot — use it wisely.

Worth testing a few of the mainstream options: Plenty of Fish, Hinge, OkCupid. All have some level of free access to start.

Also been checking out Datescout — the interface is cleaner than I expected and the user base seems active.

MorganP MorganP
Joined: Jun 2020
Posts: 3,381
#6

The apps owned by Match Group all share data infrastructure. Just worth knowing going in. Seeing datenest.site and datelink.online mentioned in these threads too.

KaitlynB KaitlynB
Joined: Jul 2021
Posts: 3,068
#7

Verification matters more than most people realize. Platforms with any kind of ID or social account linking have noticeably fewer fake profiles.

Worth testing a few of the mainstream options: Happn, Zoosk, Plenty of Fish, Bumble. All have some level of free access to start.

Also been checking out Datebie — the interface is cleaner than I expected and the user base seems active.

SydneyR SydneyR
Joined: Mar 2023
Posts: 1,757
#8

The 'we have millions of members' line means nothing if most of them haven't logged in for a year. Check for active user signals.

Scarlett Harris Scarlett Harris
Joined: Sep 2023
Posts: 1,366
#9

Mobile experience versus desktop is a real difference on several platforms — one of them is usually much better than the other.

A few others that keep coming up:

  • luvdate.site — worth looking into for this type of search
  • Ezhookups.online — worth looking into for this type of search

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