This topic comes up a lot in my circle and I figured it's worth getting real opinions from people here.
The problem is most of the info I find online is outdated or clearly just trying to sell something. I want to hear from people who've actually used these things recently.
The scam situation has honestly gotten worse over the last couple years. Verification means nothing on a lot of these sites.
- Reverse image search any profile photo you're unsure about
- Use a throwaway email for sign-up
- Test the free tier thoroughly before paying anything
- Check if the site has been mentioned in any data breach reports
- Always check for recent reviews, not just the homepage testimonials
Any current 2025/2026 input is especially helpful since things change so quickly.
One name I've seen come up more than once lately is Datescout — not sure if anyone here has used it but curious.