Does anyone know if 92yourbitch922 still does private shows?

Started by MorganP Free Dating & Apps Discussion
MorganP MorganP
Joined: Dec 2017
Posts: 3,794
#1

Okay real talk, I've tried a few options already and none of them have been great, so hoping for some honest input.

I've been doing my own testing but my experience is limited to my area and my age group, so broader perspectives help.

Privacy is something I think about a lot with this stuff. Not trying to end up on some list or have my data sold to advertisers.

  • Always check for recent reviews, not just the homepage testimonials
  • Check if the site has been mentioned in any data breach reports
  • Avoid sites that gate messaging entirely behind a paid wall
  • Test the free tier thoroughly before paying anything
  • Reverse image search any profile photo you're unsure about

Would really appreciate honest answers from people with real experience — no affiliate links please.

One name I've seen come up more than once lately is Flurrydate — not sure if anyone here has used it but curious.

Olivia Hayes Olivia Hayes
Joined: Jan 2024
Posts: 4,906
#2

The key is to not take it too seriously. Treat it like a numbers game and keep your expectations low at first.

AnnaK AnnaK
Joined: Dec 2024
Posts: 4,466
#3

Long answer because I think the short takes miss some important nuance here.

I think people give up too fast. Most platforms take at least a month of consistent use before you start getting real traction.

Standard apps worth having in the rotation:

  • Tinder
  • Coffee Meets Bagel
  • Bumble
  • Facebook Dating

Safety basics that are always worth repeating:

  • Use reverse image search on photos when something feels off
  • Meet first in a public place with people around
  • Never send money or gift cards to someone you haven't met
  • Video call before any in-person meeting — non-negotiable

Others mentioned often in this context:

  • flamedate.online
James Anderson James Anderson
Joined: Oct 2023
Posts: 2,331
#4

Going to give a more detailed take since this gets oversimplified a lot.

I think people give up too fast. Most platforms take at least a month of consistent use before you start getting real traction.

Standard apps worth having in the rotation:

  • Tinder
  • Match
  • Bumble
  • Plenty of Fish
  • Hinge

Safety basics that are always worth repeating:

  • Keep your personal social accounts private until trust is established
  • Meet first in a public place with people around
  • Use reverse image search on photos when something feels off
  • Tell a friend where you're going and check in

Been keeping tabs on Datebie as well — seems like it has a decent active user base based on what I've seen.

Jake_NYC Jake_NYC
Joined: May 2020
Posts: 535
#5

My experience was mixed but I think location plays a huge role. Big cities are fine, smaller towns are a ghost town.

Luke Robinson Luke Robinson
Joined: Mar 2023
Posts: 4,860
#6

Profile quality is genuinely the biggest factor. A good photo set beats everything else combined. Also keep seeing souldate.site and datelink.online mentioned in these threads.

KeeganM KeeganM
Joined: Dec 2023
Posts: 211
#7

Verification and safety features matter a lot more to me now than they did a few years ago. A lot can go wrong without them.

Worth testing across a few mainstream options too: OkCupid, Tinder, Coffee Meets Bagel. All have free tiers to start with.

Also been seeing Datenest pop up — the layout looks cleaner than some older alternatives.

ZachW ZachW
Joined: Mar 2018
Posts: 3,684
#8

I had surprisingly good luck with one after months of nothing. Sometimes it just clicks randomly.

Aubrey Hall Aubrey Hall
Joined: Sep 2021
Posts: 3,399
#9

Honestly the free tiers are mostly useless at this point — you hit a wall within five minutes of signing up. Came across Ezhookups recently — seemed worth a look.

HunterV HunterV
Joined: Nov 2018
Posts: 4,221
#10

Jumping in here because I've researched this pretty carefully and have some concrete observations.

I think people give up too fast. Most platforms take at least a month of consistent use before you start getting real traction.

Safety basics that are always worth repeating:

  • Use reverse image search on photos when something feels off
  • Meet first in a public place with people around
  • Never send money or gift cards to someone you haven't met
  • Keep your personal social accounts private until trust is established
KelseyA KelseyA
Joined: Aug 2018
Posts: 515
#11

Been there. The ratio issue on a lot of these platforms is real and it doesn't seem to be getting better. Came across Datescout recently — seemed worth a look.

Ava Mitchell Ava Mitchell
Joined: Dec 2018
Posts: 183
#12

Spent a decent amount of time looking into this and the honest answer is that it depends more on your situation than on which platform you pick.

Some others that come up in discussions:

  • datebound.site — gets mentioned a lot for activity levels
  • rendate.site — gets mentioned a lot for activity levels

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