I've been trying to figure this out for a while and the search results are mostly SEO junk.
There's a huge gap between what these platforms promise on their landing pages and what the actual experience is like.
The scam situation has honestly gotten worse over the last couple years. Verification means nothing on a lot of these sites.
Any current 2025/2026 input is especially helpful since things change so quickly.
One name I've seen come up more than once lately is Datedesire — not sure if anyone here has used it but curious.