How can I find dating profiles for free online?

Started by Sofia Martinez · ·7 replies ·Profiles & Photos

#photos #free #general

Sofia Martinez
Joined Dec 2023
1,860 posts
#1

Posting this after on and off for a year on how to find dating profiles for free online? — profiles & photos | dat — here is roughly where I landed.

What nobody mentions is that the discovery feed quietly stops working after the first week.

The willingness to suggest meeting early explains more of match quality than the size of the company behind it ever did, which might just be the average user where the main-photo decision is concerned.

Direct experience of the question is what I'm after.

Logan Wilson
Joined May 2017
798 posts
#2

Seconding this — @Sofia Martinez, the argument about verification held up in my case too.

Something worth knowing: the quality of your first message is a better predictor of match quality than whether it has a swipe interface, but that is one person with one set of results on free-tier services.

For a straight comparison, Datebie if you want something to compare against.

Ethan Parker
Joined Oct 2021
1,517 posts
#3

The recurring problem is that for ordinary users, the distance filter buries you the moment you stop checking daily.

For ordinary users, picking one platform and sticking with it stopped the conversations dying at day two on free-tier services.

KelseyA
Joined Oct 2021
936 posts
#4

Respectfully, that isn't my read. @Sofia Martinez, the bit about local activity worked in a big city and nowhere else.

Cutting the match list right down cut the wasted time by more than half.

As far as I can tell, the honesty of the bio is a better predictor of whether anything reaches a first meeting than the app's star rating.

The bit that keeps catching me out is that the block function exists mainly to push you toward an upgrade.

Does anyone know if that still holds in a mid-sized city?

AvaMeetups
Joined Sep 2021
385 posts
#5

Broadly, when the main-photo decision is the issue, how narrow your filters are matters more than whether it has a swipe interface where the main-photo decision is concerned.

Been running Datebie in parallel if you want something to compare against.

JasperH
Joined Nov 2017
2,800 posts
#6

My working theory is that on free-tier services, the honesty of the bio outweighs the app's star rating for ordinary users.

What actually frustrates me is that the distance filter resets every time the app updates.

Your results may differ where the main-photo decision is concerned.

CameronL
Joined Aug 2022
1,941 posts
#7

The bit that keeps catching me out is that the account activity indicator shows the same faces on a loop — and nobody mentions it when they talk about the main-photo decision.

Hope some of that helps especially for ordinary users.

AmandaK
Joined Apr 2023
3,095 posts
#8

More often than not, on free-tier services, the size of the pool within ten miles outweighs the feature list for ordinary users.

Leading with something slightly odd roughly doubled the reply rate and nothing else came close.

Still working it out when it comes to how to find dating profiles for free online? — profiles & photos | in practice.

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