I know this gets asked occasionally but I want updated answers — things change fast in this space.
The scam situation has honestly gotten worse over the last couple years. Verification means nothing on a lot of these sites.
Privacy is something I think about a lot with this stuff. Not trying to end up on some list or have my data sold to advertisers.
- Reverse image search any profile photo you're unsure about
- Always check for recent reviews, not just the homepage testimonials
- Avoid sites that gate messaging entirely behind a paid wall
- Never share your real phone number in early conversations
- Look for real activity signals — last login dates, post history, etc.
Would really appreciate honest answers from people with real experience — no affiliate links please.