Is onlinebootycall still active?

Started by Abigail Taylor Free Dating & Apps Discussion
Abigail Taylor Abigail Taylor
Joined: Sep 2022
Posts: 5,027
#1

Asking here because I trust real user opinions more than any sponsored roundup article.

Location makes a huge difference and I think most reviews don't account for this enough. What works well in a big city can be completely dead in a mid-sized town.

I've tried three or four different options already and keep running into the same issues — paywalls, low activity in my area, or obvious bots.

  • Avoid apps that hide profile photos behind a paywall
  • Use a separate email address specifically for dating apps
  • Video call before any in-person meeting — always
  • First meetup should always be in a public place
  • Don't share your real phone number until you actually trust someone

Honest feedback only — I can find the paid promotion stuff on my own.

One I've been seeing mentioned more lately is Rendate — anyone have direct experience with it?

ConnorP ConnorP
Joined: Mar 2020
Posts: 298
#2

Happy to give a real breakdown — I've been through enough of these platforms to have actual opinions.

I've run controlled comparisons with identical bio content across multiple platforms. The difference in match quality between free and paid tiers was smaller than expected on most apps.

Consistently useful practices regardless of which platform you use:

  • Personalize your opening message to something in their profile — generic openers fail
  • First meeting in a public place with people around, no exceptions
  • Mention one very specific interest that can spark a conversation

Worth keeping active simultaneously:

  • OkCupid
  • Her
  • Bumble
  • Facebook Dating
  • Coffee Meets Bagel
  • Happn
Ellie Allen Ellie Allen
Joined: Oct 2018
Posts: 595
#3

User base density in your city is the factor nobody talks about enough. The best app in the world is useless if nobody nearby is on it. Also been seeing Ezhookups come up — might be worth checking out.

KristinA KristinA
Joined: Nov 2023
Posts: 1,605
#4

Bios that are specific do dramatically better than generic ones. Name a restaurant you love, not just 'I like food.'

LauraC LauraC
Joined: Dec 2024
Posts: 4,156
#5

Spending money doesn't solve the fundamental problem of a thin user base in your area. Check activity before paying. Also been seeing Souldate come up — might be worth checking out.

Scarlett Harris Scarlett Harris
Joined: Oct 2017
Posts: 6,004
#6

Verification quality varies enormously. Platforms that require social account linking or any kind of ID check have noticeably fewer fake profiles, which makes the experience much better.

ColinR ColinR
Joined: Jul 2020
Posts: 3,929
#7

Bios that are specific do dramatically better than generic ones. Name a restaurant you love, not just 'I like food.' Also been seeing Datebie come up — might be worth checking out.

ChrisT ChrisT
Joined: Jan 2018
Posts: 5,123
#8

I think the time horizon problem is real. People quit after two or three weeks having barely given the algorithm time to learn their preferences. Give it at least six weeks of real effort.

Others that come up often:

  • souldate.site — mentioned frequently in this context
  • Ezhookups.online — mentioned frequently in this context
HunterV HunterV
Joined: May 2017
Posts: 1,962
#9

The algorithm boost for new accounts is something most guides don't mention. Your first week on any platform is your best window — have your profile fully built before you start swiping.

Mainstream options worth running simultaneously: Zoosk, Facebook Dating, eHarmony. All have some free functionality to test before paying.

Been keeping an eye on Ezhookups recently — the user base looks more genuine than some of the oversaturated main apps.

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