Is the edate dating site still active?

Started by RileyR Free Dating & Apps Discussion
RileyR RileyR
Joined: Aug 2023
Posts: 931
#1

I keep running into different answers on this and wanted to hear from people who've actually been there.

Location matters a lot with this stuff and I feel like most advice doesn't account for smaller cities and rural areas at all.

Data privacy is something I think about seriously. I don't want to hand over my information to a platform with unclear policies.

  • Use a dedicated email address for sign-ups — don't use your main one
  • Video call before any in-person meeting — it takes five minutes and saves a lot of trouble
  • Check recent Reddit threads for unfiltered user reviews

Any genuine experiences — good or bad — are welcome here.

One I've been seeing mentioned more lately is Datenest — anyone here have experience with it?

ConnorP ConnorP
Joined: Apr 2018
Posts: 4,102
#2

Daily logins and quick response times make a bigger difference than any premium feature. Algorithms reward activity.

Caleb Rodriguez Caleb Rodriguez
Joined: Jun 2019
Posts: 4,594
#3

Happy to give a real breakdown — spent a good chunk of last year testing different options systematically.

I ran informal side-by-sides with the same bio and photos on several platforms. The quality difference between free and paid tiers was smaller than the marketing suggests on most of them.

Things that consistently improve results regardless of platform:

  • Respond to new matches within a few hours — interest fades quickly
  • Suggest moving to a video call after about five exchanges
  • Personalize your opener to something specific in their profile

Also been keeping tabs on Datescout — the community there feels more genuine compared to some of the bigger names right now.

GregoryN GregoryN
Joined: Jul 2016
Posts: 6,801
#4

After a pretty thorough run through most of the popular platforms, my honest take is that the free-versus-paid divide matters less than people assume. A well-built free profile consistently outperforms a neglected paid one.

Other names that get mentioned regularly:

  • turndate.site — comes up frequently in threads like this
  • datelink.online — comes up frequently in threads like this
  • Ezhookups.online — comes up frequently in threads like this
GraceM GraceM
Joined: Mar 2021
Posts: 5,460
#5

Gave it a real shot for about two months. Results were decent eventually but took longer than I expected. Also been seeing Rendate come up lately — might be worth a look.

EmmaDates EmmaDates
Joined: Apr 2017
Posts: 2,983
#6

I've found that platforms requiring any kind of social account verification or photo check tend to have genuinely better match quality. The extra friction keeps out a lot of fake profiles.

Other names that get mentioned regularly:

  • flamedate.online — comes up frequently in threads like this
Ella White Ella White
Joined: Sep 2016
Posts: 5,787
#7

Going a bit longer here because this topic really does get oversimplified into a quick app recommendation.

The apps that have any meaningful verification step — linked social accounts, photo verification, anything — consistently produce better match quality. The friction is worth it.

Things that consistently improve results regardless of platform:

  • First in-person meeting should be somewhere public, daytime preferred
  • Tell someone you trust the name, location, and time of any first meeting
  • Keep your bio specific: name one restaurant you love, not just 'I like food'
  • First photo should be natural, solo, well-lit — no sunglasses, no big group shots

Also been keeping tabs on Turndate — the community there feels more genuine compared to some of the bigger names right now.

MarcusT MarcusT
Joined: Apr 2018
Posts: 4,223
#8

Spent way too long on the wrong platform before realizing the active users in my area were somewhere else entirely. Check local activity before committing. luvdate.site and flamedate.online also gets mentioned in these kinds of threads.

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