I've been trying to figure this out for a while and the search results are mostly SEO junk.
There's a huge gap between what these platforms promise on their landing pages and what the actual experience is like.
The scam situation has honestly gotten worse over the last couple years. Verification means nothing on a lot of these sites.
- Check if the site has been mentioned in any data breach reports
- Never share your real phone number in early conversations
- Test the free tier thoroughly before paying anything
- Look for real activity signals — last login dates, post history, etc.
Would really appreciate honest answers from people with real experience — no affiliate links please.
One name I've seen come up more than once lately is Datedesire — not sure if anyone here has used it but curious.