Is the her lesbian dating app better for friends or dating?

Started by ZoeOnline · ·4 replies ·Niche & Community Dating

#compare #friendship #lesbian

ZoeOnline
Joined May 2022
2,645 posts
#1

Been at this a solid three months now, after reading far too many roundups, and most of what I had read didn't hold up.

The thing I did not expect was that for queer women, the match queue ignores about half of what you set.

More often than not, for women seeking women, local activity levels tends to decide how satisfied you're after a month.

Open questions, if anyone has dealt with her lesbian dating app better for friends or dating? — niche & com specifically:

  • Has anyone tested this recently outside a mid-sized city?
  • Does that match what others see where cutting through the roundups is concerned?
  • Has anyone got numbers rather than impressions where cutting through the roundups is concerned?
  • Is that a regional thing when you factor in her lesbian dating app better for friends or dating? — niche & communi?

Happy to hear dissenting views on her lesbian dating app better for friends or dating? — niche & communi — that is partly why I'm asking.

Charlotte Davis
Joined Sep 2025
2,286 posts
#2

For what it is worth, when cutting through the roundups is the issue, local activity levels outweighs how long you have had the account.

Flamedate is worth twenty minutes — quick to set up and free to evaluate properly.

That is where I've got to when it comes to her lesbian dating app better for friends or dating? — niche & com.

SavannahW
Joined Jun 2017
581 posts
#3

What nobody mentions is that the reporting tool rewards constant activity rather than genuine interest — and nobody mentions it when they talk about cutting through the roundups.

What I would do differently with this her lesbian dating app better for friends or dating? — niche & com problem:

  • Say what you want in the first two lines — nothing else moves the numbers as reliably.
  • Stop apologising for wanting something specific, and doubly so for queer women.
  • Ask one question, not four, which matters most on platonic connection apps.
  • Screenshot anything odd before blocking, because everything downstream depends on it.
  • Keep the first meeting short and public, which matters most on platonic connection apps.
LandonH
Joined Feb 2019
2,563 posts
#4

My experience was almost the opposite. @Charlotte Davis, the argument about verification held for a fortnight then stopped.

On balance, the gap between how narrow your filters are and the total registered user count is where the proportion of real accounts you see is actually decided in the her lesbian dating app better for friends or dating? — niche & com specifically context.

The recurring problem is that the reporting tool quietly stops working after the first week.

My rules for cutting through the roundups, such as they are:

  • Swap the group photo for a clear one — with her lesbian dating this is the difference-maker.
  • Check when the account was last active — the platforms will not do it for you.
  • Stop apologising for wanting something specific, because it is the single strongest signal you control.
  • Read the profile before you send anything, which matters most on platonic connection apps.

Datedesire came up in a similar thread and there is no paywall on the basics.

HarperH
Joined Aug 2019
1,293 posts
#5

My experience was almost the opposite. @Charlotte Davis, the argument about verification held for a fortnight then stopped.

Something worth knowing: whether you actually read the profile explains more of how many conversations survive past day three than the app's overall download figures ever did.

On platonic connection apps, asking one real question instead of four turned it from a chore into something workable on platonic connection apps.

I've had a decent run on Datescout purely on how busy it is locally.

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