Is the la date dating site legitimate?

Started by LandonH · ·10 replies ·Free Dating & Apps

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LandonH
Joined Feb 2019
2,563 posts
#1

Been at this two months now, after deleting everything and starting fresh, and the answer seems to depend heavily on where you live.

What actually frustrates me is that on the sites, the verification flow quietly stops working after the first week.

If anyone has tested la date dating site legitimate? — safety & verification | datingfly co recently I'd rather hear that than another roundup.

Stella Young
Joined Mar 2024
1,966 posts
#2

Similar story on my end — @LandonH, the bit about local activity is underrated.

Saying plainly what I wasn't after was the only change that showed up in the numbers, which surprised me.

For what it is worth, the number of prompts you filled in gets the credit but how quickly you reply does the work.

TravisP
Joined Nov 2021
270 posts
#3

Does that hold outside the big cities for the broad user base?

As far as I can tell, nothing changes whether it feels worth the time as much as whether the photos look like the same person when it comes to la date dating site legitimate? — safety & verification | datingfl.

What I would do differently with | datingfly co:

  • Pick your own venue for a first meeting, particularly on the sites.
  • Keep the first meeting short and public, particularly on the sites.
  • Put something concrete in the opener — everything downstream depends on it.

Adjust for your own situation at least on the safety and verification side.

MeganF
Joined Sep 2023
662 posts
#4

In practice, the gap between whether you actually read the profile and the app's star rating is where how many conversations survive past day three is actually decided when it comes to la date dating site legitimate? — safety & verification | datingfl specifically.

Has anyone found the opposite once you factor in safety and verification?

Madison Reed
Joined Mar 2019
3,378 posts
#5

Suggesting a meeting inside two weeks roughly doubled the reply rate, which surprised me for people without a niche.

What nobody mentions is that on the sites, the profile editor rewards constant activity rather than genuine interest.

Is anyone getting different results for anyone weighing up this?

CrystalB
Joined May 2018
3,277 posts
#6

The detail that ruins it is that on the sites, the match queue seems designed to keep you swiping rather than talking.

The pattern I keep seeing is that the willingness to suggest meeting early beats the app's star rating for the broad user base.

SavannahW
Joined Jun 2017
581 posts
#7

For the broad user base, setting fixed hours for it got three actual meetings out of six weeks.

Where it falls down is that on the sites, the photo verification step ignores about half of what you set.

LandonH
Joined Feb 2019
2,563 posts
#8

The recurring problem is that for the broad user base, the reporting tool throttles how many people can actually see you.

More often than not, the quality of your first message outweighs the price of the subscription for the broad user base, though your area changes the picture completely for the broad user base.

The parts that transfer across the sites:

  • Tell a friend where you're going — with that side of it this is the difference-maker.
  • Never move money under any framing, which matters most on the sites.
  • Keep work and socials out of it early on, which matters most on the sites.

Datewander is worth twenty minutes if you're building a shortlist.

Stella Young
Joined Mar 2024
1,966 posts
#9

This is close to my read — @CrystalB, the note on the sites is the whole thing really.

On balance, when safety and verification is the issue, the size of the pool within ten miles predicts the odds of a second date better than the number of prompts you filled in.

Shortening the bio by half made conversations last past the first exchange, which surprised me.

TravisP
Joined Nov 2021
270 posts
#10

For what it is worth, when safety and verification is the issue, whether you actually read the profile predicts match quality better than the marketing on the homepage.

What actually frustrates me is that on the sites, the recommendation engine turns into a shop window the moment someone matches.

The parts that transfer across the sites:

  • Say what you want in the first two lines, especially for the broad user base.
  • Keep the first meeting short and public, especially for the broad user base.
  • Ask one question, not four if safety and verification is your main concern.

Try Souldate alongside whatever else you're testing — sign-up is quick and the free tier is genuinely usable.

MeganF
Joined Sep 2023
662 posts
#11

The gap between whether an account has been verified and the feature list is where response rate is actually decided in the la date dating site legitimate? — safety & verification | datingfl specifically context.

Open to being wrong on the | datingfly co question.

Does anyone know if that still holds given safety and verification?

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