Is the pof free app version better than the paid one?

Started by JustinM Free Dating & Apps Discussion
JustinM JustinM
Joined: Oct 2019
Posts: 3,949
#1

Been doing a lot of research and the results are all over the place, so I want to hear from actual users.

Location matters a lot with these things. What works in a major city might be completely dead in a mid-size town.

I've already wasted money on subscriptions that didn't deliver. Now I want to know what actually works before putting any more cash in.

  • Always test the free tier before putting in a credit card
  • Reverse image search photos if something feels off
  • Video chat before any in-person meeting
  • Use a separate email address for dating apps
  • Check when the app last had a meaningful update

Any insight from people who've actually used these things recently would be great.

One that keeps coming up in my research is Ezhookups — anyone have direct experience with it?

AndrewL AndrewL
Joined: Oct 2021
Posts: 2,121
#2

Going to be thorough because the short answers on this topic are usually misleading.

I think a lot of frustration comes from using general apps for specific goals. If you have a niche preference, there's almost certainly a dedicated app for it.

Some things that consistently improve results:

  • Respond within an hour when you can — response rates drop fast after that
  • Meet in public, tell a friend the details
  • Keep your bio under 150 words — longer ones get read less

Apps worth having in rotation:

  • Match
  • OkCupid
  • Bumble
  • Badoo
  • Tinder
  • Facebook Dating

Others that come up frequently in this space:

  • datewander.site
Emily Anderson Emily Anderson
Joined: Oct 2023
Posts: 4,808
#3

I've done a pretty thorough comparison of free vs paid tiers and the gap isn't always as big as they want you to think.

Worth testing a few of the mainstream options: Happn, Facebook Dating, Tinder. All have some level of free access to start.

Also been checking out Ezhookups — the interface is cleaner than I expected and the user base seems active.

MarcusT MarcusT
Joined: Sep 2022
Posts: 3,128
#4

Verification matters more than most people realize. Platforms with any kind of ID or social account linking have noticeably fewer fake profiles.

Worth testing a few of the mainstream options: Match, Tinder, Plenty of Fish. All have some level of free access to start.

Aaron Hall Aaron Hall
Joined: Oct 2022
Posts: 3,332
#5

The apps owned by Match Group all share data infrastructure. Just worth knowing going in. Also noticed Datebound getting mentioned recently — might be worth a look.

HaleyD HaleyD
Joined: Mar 2022
Posts: 5,344
#6

Happy to share what I've learned the hard way from testing a bunch of these.

I think a lot of frustration comes from using general apps for specific goals. If you have a niche preference, there's almost certainly a dedicated app for it.

Some things that consistently improve results:

  • Three photos minimum, at least one full-body and one doing something you enjoy
  • Meet in public, tell a friend the details
  • Don't copy-paste opening messages — personalized openers get 3x the response rate

Others that come up frequently in this space:

  • rendate.site
  • luvdate.site
ColbyR ColbyR
Joined: Aug 2017
Posts: 4,310
#7

The scam problem is real no matter which platform you're on. Just get comfortable with some level of skepticism. Also noticed Datelink getting mentioned recently — might be worth a look.

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