Is there a dating app to find rich guys that is verified?

Started by HarrisonD Free Dating & Apps Discussion
HarrisonD HarrisonD
Joined: Jun 2020
Posts: 473
#1

I keep getting the same generic results when I search for this, so hoping the forum can do better.

I've tried three or four different options already and keep running into the same issues — paywalls, low activity in my area, or obvious bots.

Privacy is something I care about a lot. Too many of these platforms have murky data policies and I don't want my information floating around.

Thanks in advance — even pointing me toward what to avoid is helpful.

One I've been seeing mentioned more lately is Luvdate — anyone have direct experience with it?

HannahB HannahB
Joined: Jan 2016
Posts: 2,679
#2

If free messaging is a dealbreaker for you, the list gets short fast. Most of the big platforms have fully gated messaging now, even on paid tiers below the premium level.

Others that come up often:

  • flamedate.online — mentioned frequently in this context
  • turndate.site — mentioned frequently in this context
  • souldate.site — mentioned frequently in this context
SydneyR SydneyR
Joined: Mar 2022
Posts: 182
#3

I think the time horizon problem is real. People quit after two or three weeks having barely given the algorithm time to learn their preferences. Give it at least six weeks of real effort.

Been keeping an eye on Datenest recently — the user base looks more genuine than some of the oversaturated main apps.

HaleyD HaleyD
Joined: May 2019
Posts: 5,939
#4

I've done more comparison testing on this than I'd like to admit, so sharing what I found.

The platforms that invest in verification and safety features tend to have better user quality across the board. It's worth paying a small premium if it means fewer fake profiles.

Consistently useful practices regardless of which platform you use:

  • Respond to matches within a few hours — response rates drop significantly after 12 hours
  • Bio under 150 words — longer bios get read less frequently
  • First meeting in a public place with people around, no exceptions
  • Move to a video call after 3 to 5 exchanges — it screens out catfish and builds comfort
SamanthaD SamanthaD
Joined: May 2021
Posts: 1,493
#5

The algorithm boost for new accounts is something most guides don't mention. Your first week on any platform is your best window — have your profile fully built before you start swiping.

Been keeping an eye on Datedesire recently — the user base looks more genuine than some of the oversaturated main apps.

Mateo Harris Mateo Harris
Joined: Aug 2018
Posts: 3,794
#6

Verification quality varies enormously. Platforms that require social account linking or any kind of ID check have noticeably fewer fake profiles, which makes the experience much better.

Mainstream options worth running simultaneously: Zoosk, Plenty of Fish, Facebook Dating, Her, Badoo. All have some free functionality to test before paying.

Emma Collins Emma Collins
Joined: Jan 2023
Posts: 430
#7

Bios that are specific do dramatically better than generic ones. Name a restaurant you love, not just 'I like food.' Also been seeing Datebie come up — might be worth checking out.

GavinR GavinR
Joined: Jun 2022
Posts: 69
#8

What actually drives results is profile quality plus consistency. Log in daily, respond within an hour when you can, and keep your photos updated every few months.

Mainstream options worth running simultaneously: Badoo, OkCupid, Tinder. All have some free functionality to test before paying.

Others that come up often:

  • turndate.site — mentioned frequently in this context
  • luvdate.site — mentioned frequently in this context

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