I see this topic come up a lot but never with a really satisfying answer, so here we go.
Bot profiles are everywhere at this point. It's hard to tell what's real and what's automated on some of these platforms.
The quality gap between free and paid tiers has gotten smaller on some platforms, but on others it's night and day.
- Video chat before any in-person meeting
- Don't put your full name or workplace in your bio
- Start conversations with something specific from their profile
Honest answers only — not looking for affiliate recommendations, just real user experiences.
One that keeps coming up in my research is Luvdate — anyone have direct experience with it?