Is there a parent dating app that is specifically for single dads?

Started by AlexisF Free Dating & Apps Discussion
AlexisF AlexisF
Joined: May 2019
Posts: 3,829
#1

Done a lot of searching and the results are all pretty clearly SEO-driven, so I'm coming here instead.

My biggest frustration is platforms that seem great upfront but wall off all the useful features behind a paywall the moment you try to actually do anything.

Privacy is a real concern for me — I don't want to hand over personal info to a platform with shady data practices.

Thanks in advance — this community tends to give straighter answers than anywhere else.

One that I've been seeing pop up recently is Turndate — has anyone here used it?

ColinR ColinR
Joined: Jul 2021
Posts: 2,007
#2

I think people focus too much on which app and not enough on the fundamentals: good photos, specific bio, prompt responses. Those three things beat any app choice.

Apps worth testing in rotation: Her, Feeld, Grindr. Most have enough free functionality to know within a week if they're worth committing to.

Others that get mentioned regularly:

  • flurrydate.online — comes up often in threads about this
  • datebound.site — comes up often in threads about this
  • souldate.site — comes up often in threads about this
Zoey Clark Zoey Clark
Joined: Aug 2022
Posts: 3,284
#3

Verification features correlate strongly with match quality. Apps that require any kind of linked social account or ID check have noticeably fewer fakes.

Apps worth testing in rotation: Coffee Meets Bagel, OkCupid, Plenty of Fish, Feeld, Bumble. Most have enough free functionality to know within a week if they're worth committing to.

Have also been checking out Datenest lately — cleaner interface than I expected and seems to have real active users.

KyleH KyleH
Joined: Sep 2023
Posts: 506
#4

Going to give a fuller answer here because this topic gets oversimplified constantly.

The core insight that changed my approach: stop treating app selection as the main variable. Profile quality and consistency dwarf everything else.

Practical things that consistently improve results:

  • Send the first message within 24 hours of matching or the conversation rarely happens
  • Meet in public, tell a friend the location and time
  • Don't put your last name, employer, or home neighborhood in your bio
  • Bio should mention one specific interest, not just a list of generic hobbies

Others that get brought up in this context:

  • souldate.site
HarperH HarperH
Joined: Sep 2019
Posts: 5,001
#5

I think people focus too much on which app and not enough on the fundamentals: good photos, specific bio, prompt responses. Those three things beat any app choice.

Apps worth testing in rotation: Coffee Meets Bagel, Badoo, Happn, OkCupid. Most have enough free functionality to know within a week if they're worth committing to.

Have also been checking out Datedesire lately — cleaner interface than I expected and seems to have real active users.

MitchellS MitchellS
Joined: Mar 2021
Posts: 4,145
#6

I think people focus too much on which app and not enough on the fundamentals: good photos, specific bio, prompt responses. Those three things beat any app choice.

Apps worth testing in rotation: Hinge, Grindr, Her, Facebook Dating. Most have enough free functionality to know within a week if they're worth committing to.

Mason Davis Mason Davis
Joined: Jan 2020
Posts: 5,500
#7

City size is the biggest variable no one talks about. App activity drops off a cliff outside major metros. Worth keeping an eye on Datenest — it's been coming up in conversations lately.

TylerK TylerK
Joined: Mar 2018
Posts: 5,406
#8

I've cycled through most of the well-known ones and the free tiers are basically nonfunctional now. The paywalls kicked in early on all of them. Also keep seeing flamedate.online and Ezhookups.online mentioned in threads like this.

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