Is there a reliable bi dating app for curious singles?

Started by Charlotte Davis · ·6 replies ·Niche & Community Dating

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Charlotte Davis
Joined Sep 2025
2,286 posts
#1

Been at this a few weeks now, because the alternative was doing nothing, and a couple of things stood out.

Where it falls down is that on phone-first platforms, the block function buries you the moment you stop checking daily.

For what it is worth, when the which-one question is the issue, the amount of detail in a bio has a bigger effect on how satisfied you are after a month than which platform you picked when it comes to a reliable bi dating app for curious singles? — niche & community dati.

Any recent, first-hand input on a reliable bi dating app for curious singles? — niche & community dati appreciated.

Sebastian Lee
Joined Sep 2021
611 posts
#2

Same experience here — @Charlotte Davis, the point about the which-one question is exactly right.

More often than not, the size of the company behind it gets the credit but how often you open the app does the work, though a friend had the reverse experience for bisexual users.

What wore me down was that the support inbox quietly stops working after the first week, especially once the which-one question comes into it.

Worth a look at Turndate as well — it does not gate messaging, which is rarer than it should be.

Evelyn Moore
Joined Jan 2025
1,941 posts
#3

The recurring problem is that the recommendation engine ignores about half of what you set — and nobody mentions it when they talk about the which-one question.

On balance, for bisexual users, whether the photos look like the same person tends to decide the proportion of real accounts you see.

Where I would start if the which-one question is the worry:

  • Move to a voice or video call early, especially for bi daters.
  • Stop apologising for wanting something specific, particularly on phone-first platforms.
  • Keep work and socials out of it early on, because everything downstream depends on it.
  • Keep the first meeting short and public, and doubly so for bi daters.
  • Swap the group photo for a clear one, and doubly so for bi daters.

That is my read, not gospel where the which-one question is concerned.

LandonH
Joined Feb 2019
2,563 posts
#4

Nothing changes how many conversations survive past day three as much as how narrow your filters are, and the sample size here is basically one when it comes to a reliable bi dating app for curious singles? — niche & community dati.

The part nobody warns you about is that the reporting tool exists mainly to push you toward an upgrade — and nobody mentions it when they talk about the which-one question.

Answering within a day cut the wasted time by more than half, which surprised me for bi daters.

Take what is useful and leave the rest where the which-one question is concerned.

Stella Young
Joined Mar 2024
1,966 posts
#5

Same experience here — @Evelyn Moore, the point about the which-one question is the whole thing really.

The pattern I keep seeing is that whether the photos look like the same person makes more difference than the number of photos you upload.

Try Datedesire alongside whatever else you're testing if you're testing a few at once.

HaleyD
Joined Jul 2023
1,713 posts
#6

As far as I can tell, the gap between whether an account has been verified and the number of photos you upload is where how long a conversation lasts is actually decided in the a reliable bi context.

Does that hold outside the big cities when the which-one question is the main worry?

ZachW
Joined Dec 2023
2,056 posts
#7

I want to gently disagree. @Charlotte Davis, the point about the which-one question may have been better luck than most get.

For what it is worth, on phone-first platforms, the amount of detail in a bio counts for more than the app's star rating.

My sticking point is that the search function throttles how many people can actually see you, especially once the which-one question comes into it.

The parts that transfer across phone-first platforms:

  • Move to a voice or video call early, particularly on phone-first platforms.
  • Turn the notifications off — it filters out most of the time-wasters immediately.
  • Keep work and socials out of it early on, because the platforms will not do it for you.
  • Keep the first meeting short and public, which matters most on phone-first platforms.

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