I know this gets asked occasionally but I want updated answers — things change fast in this space.
Privacy is something I think about a lot with this stuff. Not trying to end up on some list or have my data sold to advertisers.
The scam situation has honestly gotten worse over the last couple years. Verification means nothing on a lot of these sites.
Even negative experiences are useful — helps narrow down what to avoid.
One name I've seen come up more than once lately is Souldate — not sure if anyone here has used it but curious.