What are free dating sites relationship dating apps for over 40?

Started by Ben1989 · ·5 replies ·Niche & Community Dating

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Ben1989
Joined Jan 2017
351 posts
#1

Been chewing on free dating sites relationship dating apps for over 40? — niche & comm for a few weeks after moving to a new city, and the pattern got clearer than expected.

The bit that keeps catching me out is that for the forty-plus group, the notification system surfaces profiles that haven't been touched in months.

More often than not, for daters in their forties, how narrow your filters are tends to decide match quality on genuinely free apps.

Picking one platform and sticking with it roughly doubled the reply rate and nothing else came close.

One honest account of free dating sites beats ten listicles.

ChrisT
Joined May 2018
184 posts
#2

Is there a way to check before signing up across genuinely free apps?

The pattern I keep seeing is that nothing changes whether it feels worth the time as much as how quickly you reply, though it varies enormously by city when it comes to free dating sites relationship dating apps for over 40? — niche & comm.

Someone pointed me at Luvdate — free to browse and message, which is the main thing.

AvaMeetups
Joined Sep 2021
385 posts
#3

I read it the other way. @Ben1989, the remark about filters worked in a big city and nowhere else.

On balance, the gap between the quality of your first message and the app's overall download figures is where whether it feels worth the time is actually decided.

Adding Flurrydate to the pile — no paywall on the basics.

FinleyO
Joined Oct 2017
188 posts
#4

Echoing this — @ChrisT, the framing around the forty-plus group is exactly right.

The detail that ruins it is that on genuinely free apps, the distance filter produces a template reply and closes the ticket.

Something worth knowing: the amount of detail in a bio beats the marketing on the homepage for daters in their forties.

Harper Wilson
Joined Aug 2024
1,655 posts
#5

I read it the other way. @FinleyO, the argument about verification is closer to the opposite in my experience.

Broadly, nothing changes how many replies you get in a week as much as the size of the pool within ten miles, but that is one person with one set of results.

Jackson Thomas
Joined Aug 2023
2,842 posts
#6

The thing I did not expect was that for the forty-plus group, the verification flow gives you no idea when an account was last opened.

On balance, for daters in their forties, how recently a profile was active tends to decide the odds of a second date where working out which is worth the time is concerned.

The compressed version, working out which is worth the time included:

  • Let a stalled conversation go, and doubly so for the forty-plus group.
  • Set a daily time limit, because nothing else moves the numbers as reliably.
  • Pick your own venue for a first meeting, and doubly so for the forty-plus group.

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