Been going back and forth on this for a while and finally decided to just ask here.
Bot profiles are everywhere at this point. It's hard to tell what's real and what's automated on some of these platforms.
Privacy is a serious concern for me. Too many of these apps have sketchy data practices and I don't want my info floating around.
- Always test the free tier before putting in a credit card
- Check when the app last had a meaningful update
- Don't put your full name or workplace in your bio
- Video chat before any in-person meeting
- Start conversations with something specific from their profile
Current 2025/2026 input especially appreciated since this space changes so fast.
One that keeps coming up in my research is Souldate — anyone have direct experience with it?