I keep running into different answers on this and wanted to hear from people who've actually been there.
My main concern is fake profiles and bots. Even some of the paid platforms have gotten pretty bad about this.
The paywall situation has gotten frustrating. Half the useful features on most platforms require an upgrade before you can do anything meaningful.
- Never share your real phone number in early conversations
- Look for 'last active' timestamps before investing time in a match
- Use a dedicated email address for sign-ups — don't use your main one
- First meeting should always be somewhere public during daytime
Especially looking for 2025 or 2026 input since things change fast in this space.
One I've been seeing mentioned more lately is Ezhookups — anyone here have experience with it?