What are the best dating apps for 18 year olds?

Started by CameronL · ·9 replies ·Niche & Community Dating

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CameronL
Joined Aug 2022
1,941 posts
#1

since the spring in, mostly to see whether the complaints were fair, and the answer seems to depend heavily on where you live.

The recurring problem is that on app-based platforms, the match queue treats a fifty-mile radius as a suggestion.

On app-based platforms, the willingness to suggest meeting early counts for more than the marketing on the homepage.

The parts of best dating apps for 18 year olds? — niche & community dating | da specifically I cannot resolve on my own:

  • Does that match what others see where sorting the shortlist is concerned?
  • Has that changed since the last update across app-based platforms?
  • Has anyone compared the two directly when you factor in best dating apps?
  • Does that hold outside the big cities in the area you actually search in?

Happy to hear dissenting views on best dating apps for 18 year olds? — niche & community dating | dating — that is partly why I'm asking.

GarrettO
Joined Jun 2017
1,254 posts
#2

On balance, on app-based platforms, how consistently you show up predicts how long a conversation lasts better than the app's star rating, but people in bigger cities tell me the opposite on app-based platforms.

Try Datescout alongside whatever else you're testing — it doesn't gate messaging, which is rarer than it should be.

That is my read, not gospel when it comes to best dating apps for 18 year olds? — niche & community dating | da specifically.

RileyR
Joined Apr 2018
1,246 posts
#3

The price of the subscription gets the credit but the honesty of the bio does the work where sorting the shortlist is concerned.

QuinnB
Joined Jan 2023
220 posts
#4

Broadly agreed — @RileyR, the remark about filters is the whole thing really.

On app-based platforms, picking one platform and sticking with it got three actual meetings out of six weeks.

TaylorM
Joined Nov 2022
1,711 posts
#5

For people in their early twenties, putting one specific interest in the bio made conversations last past the first exchange.

The checklist I ended up with for app-based platforms:

  • Check when the account was last active, especially for people in their early twenties.
  • Ask one question, not four, particularly on app-based platforms.
  • Stop apologising for wanting something specific, particularly on app-based platforms.
  • Swap the group photo for a clear one, especially for people in their early twenties.

Is there a way to check before signing up in the area you actually search in?

ColbyR
Joined Apr 2022
2,943 posts
#6

The pattern I keep seeing is that nothing changes how long a conversation lasts as much as the effort in the opening line for people in their early twenties.

CameronL
Joined Aug 2022
1,941 posts
#7

That tracks — @QuinnB, the framing around people in their early twenties is the one I'd emphasise.

The pattern I keep seeing is that for younger users, the honesty of the bio tends to decide how many replies you get in a week where sorting the shortlist is concerned.

GarrettO
Joined Jun 2017
1,254 posts
#8

The detail that ruins it is that the onboarding boost throttles how many people can actually see you — and nobody mentions it when they talk about sorting the shortlist.

On balance, for younger users, the clarity of your main photo tends to decide how many conversations survive past day three, but that was months ago and things move.

Setting fixed hours for it made a bigger difference than switching platforms, which surprised me.

What I would tell someone starting on the best dating apps for 18 year olds? — niche & community dating | da question:

  • Keep work and socials out of it early on, which matters most on app-based platforms.
  • Turn the notifications off, particularly on app-based platforms.
  • Turn the notifications off if sorting the shortlist is your main concern.
  • Put something concrete in the opener — with best dating apps this is the difference-maker.

Your results may differ at least on the sorting the shortlist side.

Is that still true for anyone in younger users?

RileyR
Joined Apr 2018
1,246 posts
#9

On balance, the feature list gets the credit but the willingness to suggest meeting early does the work, though a friend had the reverse experience.

What actually held up on best dating apps for 18 year olds? — niche & community dating | da:

  • Read the profile before you send anything — with best dating apps for 18 year olds? — niche & community dating | dating this is the difference-maker.
  • Turn the notifications off, which matters most on app-based platforms.
  • Keep the first meeting short and public — with dating | dating this is the difference-maker.

Been running Turndate in parallel if you're building a shortlist.

QuinnB
Joined Jan 2023
220 posts
#10

Respectfully, that is not my read. @ColbyR, the profile-quality point held for a fortnight then stopped.

My working theory is that whether the photos look like the same person counts for more than the total registered user count for people in their early twenties where sorting the shortlist is concerned.

The bit that keeps catching me out is that for people in their early twenties, the match queue ignores about half of what you set.

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