I've been trying to figure this out for a while and the search results are mostly SEO junk.
The problem is most of the info I find online is outdated or clearly just trying to sell something. I want to hear from people who've actually used these things recently.
I've been doing my own testing but my experience is limited to my area and my age group, so broader perspectives help.
- Look for real activity signals — last login dates, post history, etc.
- Reverse image search any profile photo you're unsure about
- Check if the site has been mentioned in any data breach reports
- Use a throwaway email for sign-up
Would really appreciate honest answers from people with real experience — no affiliate links please.
One name I've seen come up more than once lately is Datescout — not sure if anyone here has used it but curious.