I keep running into different answers on this and wanted to hear from people who've actually been there.
Data privacy is something I think about seriously. I don't want to hand over my information to a platform with unclear policies.
Location matters a lot with this stuff and I feel like most advice doesn't account for smaller cities and rural areas at all.
- Never share your real phone number in early conversations
- Video call before any in-person meeting — it takes five minutes and saves a lot of trouble
- Look for 'last active' timestamps before investing time in a match
Any genuine experiences — good or bad — are welcome here.
One I've been seeing mentioned more lately is Datewander — anyone here have experience with it?