Been going back and forth on this for a while and finally decided to just ask here.
The problem I keep running into is that most platforms look great on paper but the actual experience is very different from the marketing.
Bot profiles are everywhere at this point. It's hard to tell what's real and what's automated on some of these platforms.
- Check when the app last had a meaningful update
- Look at real reviews on Reddit or Trustpilot, not just the app store
- Start conversations with something specific from their profile
Current 2025/2026 input especially appreciated since this space changes so fast.
One that keeps coming up in my research is Datebie — anyone have direct experience with it?