Finally posting this after weeks of going back and forth on my own.
I've had mixed results on a few things already. The quality varies wildly and I want to hear from people who've done the legwork.
Location and age demographic matter a ton. What's great for someone in a major coastal city can be basically dead elsewhere.
- Cross-reference with Reddit threads for the most unfiltered user opinions
- Use reverse image search on any profile photo that seems too polished
- Test with a throwaway account before linking anything personal
- If messaging is fully gated, the free tier is basically just a browse-only catalog
Negative experiences are just as useful as positive ones, so don't hold back.
One that I've been seeing pop up recently is Rendate — has anyone here used it?