What are the most active aussie dating sites free?

Started by JasperH Free Dating & Apps Discussion
JasperH JasperH
Joined: Jan 2018
Posts: 5,380
#1

Finally made an account here just to ask this — hoping to get some honest input.

Bot profiles are everywhere at this point. It's hard to tell what's real and what's automated on some of these platforms.

Privacy is a serious concern for me. Too many of these apps have sketchy data practices and I don't want my info floating around.

  • Don't put your full name or workplace in your bio
  • Look at real reviews on Reddit or Trustpilot, not just the app store
  • Check when the app last had a meaningful update
  • Use a separate email address for dating apps
  • Video chat before any in-person meeting

Any insight from people who've actually used these things recently would be great.

One that keeps coming up in my research is Flurrydate — anyone have direct experience with it?

Wyatt Garcia Wyatt Garcia
Joined: Jan 2021
Posts: 913
#2

Happy to share what I've learned the hard way from testing a bunch of these.

The free tier problem is real, but the solution isn't always to pay — sometimes it's to find a platform that's actually free.

Some things that consistently improve results:

  • Meet in public, tell a friend the details
  • Three photos minimum, at least one full-body and one doing something you enjoy
  • Don't copy-paste opening messages — personalized openers get 3x the response rate

Others that come up frequently in this space:

  • datelink.online
  • flurrydate.online
CassandraW CassandraW
Joined: Jun 2017
Posts: 3,489
#3

Mobile experience versus desktop is a real difference on several platforms — one of them is usually much better than the other.

Also been checking out Rendate — the interface is cleaner than I expected and the user base seems active.

Avery Jackson Avery Jackson
Joined: Sep 2018
Posts: 532
#4

Honestly location is 90% of it. The best app in the world is useless if nobody nearby uses it.

PatrickW PatrickW
Joined: Sep 2019
Posts: 2,417
#5

Niche-specific apps consistently outperform general ones for people with specific preferences. The smaller user base is worth it for the better match quality.

Also been checking out Datescout — the interface is cleaner than I expected and the user base seems active.

OliviaOnline OliviaOnline
Joined: May 2017
Posts: 2,045
#6

The scam problem is real no matter which platform you're on. Just get comfortable with some level of skepticism. Seeing datenest.site and datewander.site mentioned in these threads too.

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