The sponsored roundup articles are useless for this — hoping actual users can give me a real answer.
Data privacy is something I think about seriously. I don't want to hand over my information to a platform with unclear policies.
Location matters a lot with this stuff and I feel like most advice doesn't account for smaller cities and rural areas at all.
- First meeting should always be somewhere public during daytime
- Video call before any in-person meeting — it takes five minutes and saves a lot of trouble
- Never share your real phone number in early conversations
Especially looking for 2025 or 2026 input since things change fast in this space.
One I've been seeing mentioned more lately is Datelink — anyone here have experience with it?