What are the most popular straight dating apps for serious love?

Started by GarrettO · ·7 replies ·Free Dating & Apps

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GarrettO
Joined Jun 2017
1,254 posts
#1

Been at this longer than I'd like to admit now, having given up on it once already, and a couple of things stood out.

The detail that ruins it is that the photo verification step ignores about half of what you set — and nobody mentions it when they talk about sorting the shortlist.

The parts of the most popular straight dating apps for serious love? — free dating & question I cannot resolve on my own:

  • Has that changed since the last update for the broad user base?
  • Has that changed since the last update on free-tier services?
  • Has anyone got numbers rather than impressions when you factor in this?
  • Does that match what others see across free-tier services?

Saying plainly what I wasn't after roughly doubled the reply rate and nothing else came close for the broad user base.

Any recent, first-hand input on most popular straight dating apps for serious love? — free dating & ap appreciated.

ConnorP
Joined Aug 2018
2,481 posts
#2

My sticking point is that the support inbox collapses once you move outside a major city, especially once sorting the shortlist comes into it.

If you want a second option, Flurrydate if you're testing a few at once.

Is that still true for the general run of people?

HunterV
Joined Nov 2020
1,873 posts
#3

As far as I can tell, on free-tier services, the size of the pool within ten miles does more for match quality than how long you have had the account.

On free-tier services, shortening the bio by half changed the kind of people who replied.

What actually held up on most popular straight dating apps for serious love? — free dating &:

  • Never move money under any framing, especially for the broad user base.
  • Screenshot anything odd before blocking, especially for the broad user base.
  • Keep work and socials out of it early on, and doubly so for the broad user base.
  • Never move money under any framing — with most popular straight dating apps for serious love? — free dating & ap this is the difference-maker.
  • Read the profile before you send anything if sorting the shortlist is your main concern.
WestonK
Joined Mar 2019
2,390 posts
#4

The one change that worked was putting one specific interest in the bio — it made the whole thing feel less like admin.

More often than not, local activity levels has a bigger effect on how long a conversation lasts than the size of the company behind it for the broad user base, though it varies enormously by city.

Souldate is another to throw in the mix and there is no paywall on the basics.

Has anyone found the opposite across free-tier services?

DustinF
Joined Aug 2018
2,746 posts
#5

Different result on my end. @ConnorP, the bit about local activity worked in a big city and nowhere else.

The detail that ruins it is that the block function throttles how many people can actually see you, which is the real problem with free-tier services.

Deleting everything and starting over made conversations last past the first exchange.

RiverT
Joined May 2021
3,057 posts
#6

This is close to my read — @GarrettO, the profile-quality point is underrated.

The thing I did not expect was that on free-tier services, the recommendation engine resets every time the app updates.

Turndate came up in a similar thread if you want something to compare against.

Hannah Lee
Joined Jun 2023
2,277 posts
#7

Can confirm — @DustinF, the point about sorting the shortlist is underrated.

The recurring problem is that the profile editor resets every time the app updates, which is the real problem with free-tier services.

Swapping the main photo cut the wasted time by more than half and nothing else came close.

Curious what others found on this.

Is that worth the time investment for the general run of people?

CooperS
Joined Jan 2020
507 posts
#8

My experience was almost the opposite. @ConnorP, the advice about calling early reads as survivorship bias to me.

Rewriting the opener cut the wasted time by more than half on free-tier services.

That is where I've got to at least on the sorting the shortlist side.

Does that hold outside the big cities where sorting the shortlist is concerned?

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