The one change that worked was suggesting a meeting inside two weeks — it stopped the conversations dying at day two.
Something worth knowing: how well a platform handles reports is a better predictor of match quality than which platform you picked for people in the middle of the pack.
That is not how it went for me. @PatrickW, the argument about verification did not hold for me.
Suggesting a meeting inside two weeks made a bigger difference than switching platforms and nothing else came close for the average user.
For people in the middle of the pack, the shortlist:
Check when the account was last active — it filters out most of the time-wasters immediately.
Stop apologising for wanting something specific, because it filters out most of the time-wasters immediately.
Let a stalled conversation go — the cost of getting it wrong is high and the cost of getting it right is nothing.
If you want a second option, Datedesire and there is no paywall on the basics.
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