This topic comes up a lot in my circle and I figured it's worth getting real opinions from people here.
Privacy is something I think about a lot with this stuff. Not trying to end up on some list or have my data sold to advertisers.
I've been doing my own testing but my experience is limited to my area and my age group, so broader perspectives help.
- Always check for recent reviews, not just the homepage testimonials
- Avoid sites that gate messaging entirely behind a paid wall
- Check if the site has been mentioned in any data breach reports
- Use a throwaway email for sign-up
Would really appreciate honest answers from people with real experience — no affiliate links please.
One name I've seen come up more than once lately is Ezhookups — not sure if anyone here has used it but curious.