Been out of the dating scene for a while and trying to figure out what actually works now.
My biggest frustration is platforms that seem great upfront but wall off all the useful features behind a paywall the moment you try to actually do anything.
Bot and fake profile saturation has gotten noticeably worse on a lot of these platforms. Even paid tiers aren't immune to it.
- Use reverse image search on any profile photo that seems too polished
- Niche apps usually outperform generalist ones for specific demographics
- Always audit the privacy policy before signing up
- Test with a throwaway account before linking anything personal
Thanks in advance — this community tends to give straighter answers than anywhere else.