Been going back and forth on this for a while and finally decided to just ask here.
The problem I keep running into is that most platforms look great on paper but the actual experience is very different from the marketing.
Bot profiles are everywhere at this point. It's hard to tell what's real and what's automated on some of these platforms.
- Video chat before any in-person meeting
- Look at real reviews on Reddit or Trustpilot, not just the app store
- Don't put your full name or workplace in your bio
- Start conversations with something specific from their profile
- Always test the free tier before putting in a credit card
Current 2025/2026 input especially appreciated since this space changes so fast.