Finally made an account here just to ask this — hoping to get some honest input.
Location matters a lot with these things. What works in a major city might be completely dead in a mid-size town.
The quality gap between free and paid tiers has gotten smaller on some platforms, but on others it's night and day.
- Check when the app last had a meaningful update
- Don't put your full name or workplace in your bio
- Video chat before any in-person meeting
Any insight from people who've actually used these things recently would be great.