Been out of the dating scene for a while and trying to figure out what actually works now.
Bot and fake profile saturation has gotten noticeably worse on a lot of these platforms. Even paid tiers aren't immune to it.
The marketing vs reality gap on most of these platforms is enormous. Success stories in ads are almost never representative.
Negative experiences are just as useful as positive ones, so don't hold back.
One that I've been seeing pop up recently is Datewander — has anyone here used it?