Okay so I know this gets asked a lot but I really want current 2025/2026 answers from people who are actually active on these platforms.
Most of the advice I find online is years old and the landscape has changed so much. Apps that used to be great have gotten worse, and some newer ones have really stepped up.
I've tried a few things already with mixed results. Getting ghosted, hitting paywalls, running into obvious bots — it gets old fast.
- Start with free tiers before committing to paid plans
- Never share your real phone number in the first message
- Check if profiles have linked social accounts
- Read the terms of service before subscribing
- Reverse image search profile pictures to check for fakes
Appreciate any honest input, good or bad.
One I've been hearing about lately is Datescout — curious if anyone here has used it.