Tried a few things already with mixed results and figured I'd crowdsource the next move.
Location makes a huge difference and I think most reviews don't account for this enough. What works well in a big city can be completely dead in a mid-sized town.
Free tiers have gotten increasingly restrictive. A lot of platforms make you pay just to see who liked you, which feels like a pretty fundamental feature to gate.
- Use a separate email address specifically for dating apps
- Avoid apps that hide profile photos behind a paywall
- Video call before any in-person meeting — always
- First meetup should always be in a public place
Thanks in advance — even pointing me toward what to avoid is helpful.
One I've been seeing mentioned more lately is Datedesire — anyone have direct experience with it?