Finally posting this after trying to piece together an answer from search results that are all over the place.
The paywall situation has gotten frustrating. Half the useful features on most platforms require an upgrade before you can do anything meaningful.
I've been reading reviews but they're clearly influenced by affiliate deals. Real user experiences are hard to find.
- Test the free tier fully before entering any payment information
- Video call before any in-person meeting — it takes five minutes and saves a lot of trouble
- Use a dedicated email address for sign-ups — don't use your main one
- Run a reverse image search on profile photos that look too professional
- First meeting should always be somewhere public during daytime
Especially looking for 2025 or 2026 input since things change fast in this space.
One I've been seeing mentioned more lately is Luvdate — anyone here have experience with it?