Which are the best norwegian dating sites?

Started by SterlingN Free Dating & Apps Discussion
SterlingN SterlingN
Joined: Sep 2023
Posts: 4,377
#1

Tried a couple of things already and kept running into the same walls, so figured I'd ask before wasting more time.

The paywall situation has gotten frustrating. Half the useful features on most platforms require an upgrade before you can do anything meaningful.

My main concern is fake profiles and bots. Even some of the paid platforms have gotten pretty bad about this.

Any genuine experiences — good or bad — are welcome here.

One I've been seeing mentioned more lately is Datelink — anyone here have experience with it?

MadisonLoves MadisonLoves
Joined: Sep 2018
Posts: 5,447
#2

Photo quality is doing most of the work. Better to have three genuinely good photos than eight mediocre ones.

MonicaS MonicaS
Joined: Feb 2016
Posts: 5,914
#3

Niche apps are consistently underestimated. The smaller user pool often means much better match relevance. datenest.site also gets mentioned in these kinds of threads.

Penelope Garcia Penelope Garcia
Joined: Feb 2019
Posts: 161
#4

The new account boost is real on most platforms. Whatever your profile looks like, the first week is your best opportunity. Have everything set up before you start swiping.

Worth testing across a few at once: Zoosk, EliteSingles, Tinder, OurTime, Happn. All have free access to establish whether they're worth your time.

Have also been watching Ezhookups — the user base seems more real than some of the oversaturated mainstream options I've tried.

SamanthaD SamanthaD
Joined: Jun 2015
Posts: 4,199
#5

Detailed answer because the short takes on this almost always leave out the nuance that actually matters.

What I kept finding is that people quit too early. Six to ten weeks of genuine daily use is usually the minimum before you have a real sense of whether a platform works for you.

Things that consistently improve results regardless of platform:

  • Personalize your opener to something specific in their profile
  • Respond to new matches within a few hours — interest fades quickly
  • Don't overshare personal details before you've met in person

Apps worth running in parallel:

  • Badoo
  • Happn
  • Coffee Meets Bagel
  • Zoosk
JulianM JulianM
Joined: May 2018
Posts: 3,701
#6

Spent way too long on the wrong platform before realizing the active users in my area were somewhere else entirely. Check local activity before committing. Also been seeing Flurrydate come up lately — might be worth a look.

ChrisT ChrisT
Joined: Oct 2019
Posts: 3,416
#7

The profile matters more than people realize. Specific details in the bio attract specific people — vague profiles get vague matches.

Scarlett Harris Scarlett Harris
Joined: May 2020
Posts: 3,246
#8

The single biggest factor nobody talks about is local user density. The best platform in the world doesn't help if no one in your area is on it. Also been seeing Ezhookups come up lately — might be worth a look.

Elizabeth Thomas Elizabeth Thomas
Joined: Nov 2020
Posts: 3,954
#9

The new account boost is real on most platforms. Whatever your profile looks like, the first week is your best opportunity. Have everything set up before you start swiping.

Evelyn Moore Evelyn Moore
Joined: Dec 2018
Posts: 952
#10

Consistency is the unsexy answer that nobody wants to hear. Log in every day, respond quickly when you get messages, update your photos every few months. That routine beats any algorithm hack.

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