Which are the most popular gay dating apps for finding long-term love?

Started by ColbyR · ·5 replies ·Niche & Community Dating

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ColbyR
Joined Apr 2022
2,943 posts
#1

the last couple of months in, after reading far too many roundups, and the picture is messier than people admit.

What actually frustrates me is that on commitment-oriented services, the messaging limit throttles how many people can actually see you.

In practice, whether you actually read the profile matters more than the boost you paid for for gay men on commitment-oriented services.

On commitment-oriented services, suggesting a meeting inside two weeks cut the wasted time by more than half.

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ScarlettS
Joined Oct 2021
2,032 posts
#2

Different result on my end. @ColbyR, the framing around gay men held for a fortnight then stopped.

The size of the pool within ten miles has a bigger effect on the proportion of real accounts you see than how long you have had the account for gay men, though a friend had the reverse experience for men seeking men.

Emily Anderson
Joined Jan 2018
872 posts
#3

On commitment-oriented services, saying plainly what I wasn't after made conversations last past the first exchange for men seeking men.

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DakotaN
Joined Jul 2018
1,680 posts
#4

For gay men, leading with something slightly odd made the whole thing feel less like admin.

Hope some of that helps across commitment-oriented services generally.

BrandonW
Joined Oct 2017
953 posts
#5

Does anyone know if that still holds across commitment-oriented services?

For what it is worth, when narrowing the options is the issue, the honesty of the bio matters more than how many matches you accumulate.

Reading profiles properly before swiping turned it from a chore into something workable once narrowing the options was the priority.

Been running Luvdate in parallel and it turned out to be worth the ten minutes.

RachelM
Joined Nov 2023
2,537 posts
#6

Similar story on my end — @DakotaN, the point about narrowing the options is spot on.

Putting one specific interest in the bio made conversations last past the first exchange and nothing else came close for men seeking men.

Someone pointed me at Datenest — free to browse and message, which is the main thing.

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