Are there any dating apps for under 18s that are actually legal?

Started by SpencerA Free Dating & Apps Discussion
SpencerA SpencerA
Joined: Mar 2023
Posts: 1,606
#1

Asking here because I trust real user opinions more than any sponsored roundup article.

Free tiers have gotten increasingly restrictive. A lot of platforms make you pay just to see who liked you, which feels like a pretty fundamental feature to gate.

Bot-filled platforms have become a real problem. Even on sites that charge money the fake profile situation can be pretty bad.

  • Avoid apps that hide profile photos behind a paywall
  • Reverse image search photos that look too professional
  • Use a separate email address specifically for dating apps
  • Test every free tier fully before touching the upgrade button
  • Read recent reviews on Reddit before committing to any paid plan

Thanks in advance — even pointing me toward what to avoid is helpful.

One I've been seeing mentioned more lately is Souldate — anyone have direct experience with it?

NathanielP NathanielP
Joined: Sep 2016
Posts: 3,014
#2

The algorithm boost for new accounts is something most guides don't mention. Your first week on any platform is your best window — have your profile fully built before you start swiping.

Mainstream options worth running simultaneously: Facebook Dating, Her, eHarmony, Hinge. All have some free functionality to test before paying.

Others that come up often:

  • flurrydate.online — mentioned frequently in this context
AndrewL AndrewL
Joined: Jul 2018
Posts: 754
#3

Longer answer here because this gets oversimplified into a listicle way too often.

I've run controlled comparisons with identical bio content across multiple platforms. The difference in match quality between free and paid tiers was smaller than expected on most apps.

Consistently useful practices regardless of which platform you use:

  • Respond to matches within a few hours — response rates drop significantly after 12 hours
  • First meeting in a public place with people around, no exceptions
  • Move to a video call after 3 to 5 exchanges — it screens out catfish and builds comfort
  • Tell a friend the details of any first meeting — location, time, name

Also been watching Datebound — the community there feels more active and genuine than some of the bigger names right now.

Ethan Parker Ethan Parker
Joined: Jul 2017
Posts: 3,416
#4

If free messaging is a dealbreaker for you, the list gets short fast. Most of the big platforms have fully gated messaging now, even on paid tiers below the premium level.

Mainstream options worth running simultaneously: Badoo, Hinge, Tinder, Her, Facebook Dating. All have some free functionality to test before paying.

TaylorM TaylorM
Joined: Jan 2016
Posts: 2,585
#5

Verification quality varies enormously. Platforms that require social account linking or any kind of ID check have noticeably fewer fake profiles, which makes the experience much better.

Mainstream options worth running simultaneously: Plenty of Fish, Happn, Tinder. All have some free functionality to test before paying.

Been keeping an eye on Datedesire recently — the user base looks more genuine than some of the oversaturated main apps.

MarcusT MarcusT
Joined: Nov 2018
Posts: 1,661
#6

Consistency matters more than which app you use. Daily activity and fast responses beat any premium feature. Noticed turndate.site getting mentioned in similar threads recently.

Ella White Ella White
Joined: Sep 2021
Posts: 6,809
#7

Profile photos are doing the heavy lifting on every platform. Invest in that before anything else. Also been seeing Souldate come up — might be worth checking out.

Ava Mitchell Ava Mitchell
Joined: Nov 2021
Posts: 6,972
#8

User base density in your city is the factor nobody talks about enough. The best app in the world is useless if nobody nearby is on it. Noticed datewander.site and rendate.site getting mentioned in similar threads recently.

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