Are there any dating apps like meetme that are good for dating?

Started by Ella White · ·7 replies ·Free Dating & Apps

#compare #free #general

Ella White
Joined Jul 2023
1,164 posts
#1

Posting this after longer than I'd like to admit on any dating apps like meetme that are good for dating? — free dating & — my view has shifted twice since.

What wore me down was that the distance filter ignores about half of what you set.

The parts of any dating apps like meetme that are good for dating? — free dating &a in practice I cannot resolve on my own:

  • Has that changed since the last update across the free options?
  • Would that apply in a smaller town once you factor in evaluating the alternatives?
  • Has anyone tested this recently for anyone in the general run of people?
  • Does that hold outside the big cities for the general run of people?

Saying plainly what I was not after cut the wasted time by more than half and nothing else came close once evaluating the alternatives was the priority.

Direct experience of fresh input on any dating apps like meetme that are good for dating? — free dating &a is what I am after.

Grayson Clark
Joined Jul 2020
2,856 posts
#2

When evaluating the alternatives is the issue, whether the photos look like the same person beats the total registered user count.

The non-negotiables for most of us:

  • Stop apologising for wanting something specific, because the cost of getting it wrong is high and the cost of getting it right is nothing.
  • Write the bio for one person, not everyone, which matters most on the free options.
  • Turn the notifications off, because nothing else moves the numbers as reliably.
  • Tell a friend where you are going, particularly on the free options.

Datewander is worth twenty minutes if you are building a shortlist.

The other one people keep naming here is EZHookups.

Sofia Martinez
Joined Dec 2023
1,860 posts
#3

Moving to a call early got three actual meetings out of six weeks, which surprised me.

The recurring problem is that the profile editor treats a fifty-mile radius as a suggestion, which is the real problem with the free options.

Applied to any dating apps like meetme that are good for dating? — free dating &, that means:

  • Say what you want in the first two lines, because nothing else moves the numbers as reliably.
  • Reverse-image-search anything too polished, especially for most of us.
  • Check when the account was last active, and doubly so for most of us.
  • Turn the notifications off, which matters most on the free options.
  • Swap the group photo for a clear one — everything downstream depends on it.
Isabella Scott
Joined Nov 2021
1,192 posts
#4

That isn't how it went for me. @Grayson Clark, the bit about local activity is closer to the opposite in my experience.

What nobody mentions is that for most of us, the recommendation engine exists mainly to push you toward an upgrade.

The pattern I keep seeing is that how consistently you show up matters more than the number of prompts you filled in for most of us.

Jack Martin
Joined Nov 2019
385 posts
#5

That tracks — @Ella White, the advice about calling early held up in my case too.

More often than not, on the free options, how consistently you show up makes more difference than whether it has a swipe interface, though I'd want more than my own experience before calling it a rule for the general run of people.

Leading with something slightly odd made conversations last past the first exchange.

StephanieB
Joined Jan 2017
1,987 posts
#6

Broadly, how well a platform handles reports is a better predictor of how many conversations survive past day three than the app's star rating.

If you take three things from this about any dating apps like meetme that are good for dating? — free dating &a in practice:

  • Stop apologising for wanting something specific, which matters most on the free options.
  • Never move money under any framing if evaluating the alternatives is your main concern.
  • Check when the account was last active — nothing else moves the numbers as reliably.
  • Give a platform three weeks before judging it, especially for most of us.
Ella White
Joined Jul 2023
1,164 posts
#7

In practice, for the general run of people, how often you open the app tends to decide how long a conversation lasts.

What survived contact with reality on any dating apps like meetme that are good for dating? — free dating &:

  • Keep work and socials out of it early on — it saves you the conversation that was never going anywhere.
  • Let a stalled conversation go — it is the difference between a reply and silence.
  • Say what you want in the first two lines — with any dating apps like meetme that are good for dating? — free dating & this is the difference-maker.

Open to being wrong where evaluating the alternatives is concerned.

Grayson Clark
Joined Jul 2020
2,856 posts
#8

On the free options, deleting everything and starting over was the only change that showed up in the numbers.

Something worth knowing: how long you leave a conversation running is a better predictor of match quality than the feature list on the free options.

What wore me down was that the free tier shows the same faces on a loop, especially once evaluating the alternatives comes into it.

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