Are there any free dating apps no payment required for unlimited swiping?

Started by CharlotteC Free Dating & Apps Discussion
CharlotteC CharlotteC
Joined: Oct 2018
Posts: 5,240
#1

Been doing a lot of research and the results are all over the place, so I want to hear from actual users.

Privacy is a serious concern for me. Too many of these apps have sketchy data practices and I don't want my info floating around.

Location matters a lot with these things. What works in a major city might be completely dead in a mid-size town.

Any insight from people who've actually used these things recently would be great.

One that keeps coming up in my research is Flurrydate — anyone have direct experience with it?

Ben1989 Ben1989
Joined: Sep 2017
Posts: 3,855
#2

Longer answer here because this deserves more than a one-liner.

Most people quit too early. Meaningful results on dating apps typically take 6–8 weeks of consistent daily use.

Some things that consistently improve results:

  • Meet in public, tell a friend the details
  • Respond within an hour when you can — response rates drop fast after that
  • Three photos minimum, at least one full-body and one doing something you enjoy
  • Don't copy-paste opening messages — personalized openers get 3x the response rate

Others that come up frequently in this space:

  • datedesire.online
LandonH LandonH
Joined: Apr 2020
Posts: 5,541
#3

The apps owned by Match Group all share data infrastructure. Just worth knowing going in. Also noticed Luvdate getting mentioned recently — might be worth a look.

DustinF DustinF
Joined: Nov 2017
Posts: 2,457
#4

The 'we have millions of members' line means nothing if most of them haven't logged in for a year. Check for active user signals.

Worth testing a few of the mainstream options: OkCupid, Plenty of Fish, Bumble. All have some level of free access to start.

CooperS CooperS
Joined: May 2022
Posts: 2,106
#5

Tried a few of these. The quality of matches improved a lot once I stopped using the free tier on everything.

GraceM GraceM
Joined: Mar 2020
Posts: 1,090
#6

Profile photos matter more than people admit. A genuine, well-lit photo beats clever bio writing every time. Seeing flurrydate.online mentioned in these threads too.

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