Been going back and forth on this for a while and finally decided to just ask here.
Location matters a lot with these things. What works in a major city might be completely dead in a mid-size town.
The quality gap between free and paid tiers has gotten smaller on some platforms, but on others it's night and day.
- Check when the app last had a meaningful update
- Don't put your full name or workplace in your bio
- Reverse image search photos if something feels off
Current 2025/2026 input especially appreciated since this space changes so fast.
One that keeps coming up in my research is Datebound — anyone have direct experience with it?