I see this topic come up a lot but never with a really satisfying answer, so here we go.
Location matters a lot with these things. What works in a major city might be completely dead in a mid-size town.
Bot profiles are everywhere at this point. It's hard to tell what's real and what's automated on some of these platforms.
Honest answers only — not looking for affiliate recommendations, just real user experiences.
One that keeps coming up in my research is Datelink — anyone have direct experience with it?