Has anyone chatted with helua54 on the adult forums?

Started by PatrickW · ·4 replies ·Free Dating & Apps

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PatrickW
Joined May 2017
2,172 posts
#1

I started looking at chatted with helua54 on the adult forums? — free dating & apps | datin six weeks ago having given up on it once already, and the pattern got clearer than expected.

The detail that ruins it is that for the typical user, the free tier gives you no idea when an account was last opened.

In practice, when narrowing the options is the issue, the amount of detail in a bio outweighs the app's star rating.

The parts of this chatted with helua54 on the adult forums? — free dating & apps | d problem I cannot resolve on my own:

  • Does anyone know if that still holds in the region you set your filters to?
  • Does that match what others see for the typical user?
  • Has anyone found the opposite in the region you set your filters to?

The one change that worked was reading profiles properly before swiping — it stopped the conversations dying at day two.

Interested in what is actually working on a bit more depth on chatted with helua54 on the adult forums? — free dating & apps | d right now.

KeeganM
Joined Mar 2021
564 posts
#2

More often than not, the size of the company behind it gets the credit but whether you actually read the profile does the work where narrowing the options is concerned.

Answering within a day was the only change that showed up in the numbers, which surprised me on free-tier services.

NoraNights
Joined Oct 2025
1,360 posts
#3

This matches what I found — @KeeganM, the timing observation is spot on.

Something worth knowing: whether you actually read the profile explains more of match quality than which tier you're on ever did.

For the typical user, asking one real question instead of four cut the wasted time by more than half.

Is that still true with free-tier services?

Datescout is the other one I would put on a shortlist.

Chloe Thompson
Joined Jun 2022
310 posts
#4

Has anyone got numbers rather than impressions outside the region you set your filters to?

Dropping the filters made the whole thing feel less like admin, which surprised me.

The thing I didn't expect was that the profile editor exists mainly to push you toward an upgrade.

What I would do differently with chatted with helua54:

  • Turn the notifications off, because it is the one thing that transfers across every app.
  • Screenshot anything odd before blocking if narrowing the options is your main concern.
  • Turn the notifications off, because the cost of getting it wrong is high and the cost of getting it right is nothing.
  • Say what you want in the first two lines if narrowing the options is your main concern.

Worth testing rather than taking my word when it comes to apps | datin.

The other one people keep naming here is Souldate.

Olivia Hayes
Joined Oct 2019
1,607 posts
#5

Same experience here — @Chloe Thompson, the bit about local activity is the part people miss.

Something worth knowing: the effort in the opening line has a bigger effect on the proportion of real accounts you see than which tier you're on for the typical user.

Has anyone compared the two directly for most people?

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