How do I do a pof sign up for free without a phone number?

Started by James Anderson Free Dating & Apps Discussion
James Anderson James Anderson
Joined: Mar 2018
Posts: 1,692
#1

Finally made an account here just to ask this — hoping to get some honest input.

Location matters a lot with these things. What works in a major city might be completely dead in a mid-size town.

The quality gap between free and paid tiers has gotten smaller on some platforms, but on others it's night and day.

Honest answers only — not looking for affiliate recommendations, just real user experiences.

One that keeps coming up in my research is Rendate — anyone have direct experience with it?

MarcusT MarcusT
Joined: Nov 2020
Posts: 3,798
#2

Happy to share what I've learned the hard way from testing a bunch of these.

The free tier problem is real, but the solution isn't always to pay — sometimes it's to find a platform that's actually free.

Some things that consistently improve results:

  • Three photos minimum, at least one full-body and one doing something you enjoy
  • Respond within an hour when you can — response rates drop fast after that
  • If a match goes cold, one follow-up is fine; more than that is not

Apps worth having in rotation:

  • Hinge
  • Badoo
  • Feeld
  • Zoosk
  • Coffee Meets Bagel

Others that come up frequently in this space:

  • datewander.site
  • turndate.site
Avery Jackson Avery Jackson
Joined: Apr 2018
Posts: 4,291
#3

Niche-specific apps consistently outperform general ones for people with specific preferences. The smaller user base is worth it for the better match quality.

Worth testing a few of the mainstream options: Feeld, Plenty of Fish, Badoo, Happn, Hinge. All have some level of free access to start.

Also been checking out Ezhookups — the interface is cleaner than I expected and the user base seems active.

Grace Martin Grace Martin
Joined: Oct 2024
Posts: 3,692
#4

Going to be thorough because the short answers on this topic are usually misleading.

The headline is: platform choice matters less than profile quality and consistency. Fix those two things first.

Some things that consistently improve results:

  • Meet in public, tell a friend the details
  • Respond within an hour when you can — response rates drop fast after that
  • Three photos minimum, at least one full-body and one doing something you enjoy

Apps worth having in rotation:

  • Hinge
  • Badoo
  • Bumble
  • OkCupid
  • Coffee Meets Bagel

Others that come up frequently in this space:

  • datedesire.online
  • souldate.site
Grayson Clark Grayson Clark
Joined: Aug 2021
Posts: 2,941
#5

Niche apps outperformed the big generalist ones for me, at least for finding people I actually connected with. Also noticed Rendate getting mentioned recently — might be worth a look.

Layla Walker Layla Walker
Joined: Nov 2021
Posts: 1,587
#6

Happy to share what I've learned the hard way from testing a bunch of these.

Most people quit too early. Meaningful results on dating apps typically take 6–8 weeks of consistent daily use.

Some things that consistently improve results:

  • Video call before meeting — weeds out catfish and builds genuine comfort
  • Respond within an hour when you can — response rates drop fast after that
  • Don't copy-paste opening messages — personalized openers get 3x the response rate

Others that come up frequently in this space:

  • turndate.site
Owen Thompson Owen Thompson
Joined: Oct 2021
Posts: 4,778
#7

Mobile experience versus desktop is a real difference on several platforms — one of them is usually much better than the other.

Worth testing a few of the mainstream options: Match, Bumble, Hinge, Happn. All have some level of free access to start.

Also been checking out Flurrydate — the interface is cleaner than I expected and the user base seems active.

BrookeN BrookeN
Joined: Nov 2024
Posts: 942
#8

Niche-specific apps consistently outperform general ones for people with specific preferences. The smaller user base is worth it for the better match quality.

Ava Mitchell Ava Mitchell
Joined: Jul 2021
Posts: 5,433
#9

Niche-specific apps consistently outperform general ones for people with specific preferences. The smaller user base is worth it for the better match quality.

Also been checking out Rendate — the interface is cleaner than I expected and the user base seems active.

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